Many herpetologists may not care whether or not their reptiles like them, as they often have collections of snakes, lizards, turtles, and frogs that are well cared for physically but neglected on a personal level. Reptiles are considered exotic pets, and the trade in them is appalling, with a high percentage of animals dying from poor transportation and inadequate care during their journey to and from different countries.
However, like children, animals reflect their home life, and their happiness and contentment depend largely on the quality time their owners are willing to give them. Reptiles are ancient creatures and ectothermic, which means they display affection differently than cats or dogs. They can slow down their metabolism in winter to hibernate, which is known as brumation, and can even stop their heart from beating in the wild.
Despite their unique nature, reptiles can form bonds with their owners, as demonstrated by the author's pet lizard, who responds to his name and allows himself to be fed by hand without biting. Reptiles do not need to be fed daily and can go weeks without food, especially during hibernation.
If a reptile feels comfortable around its owner and allows itself to be fed by hand, it is a strong indication that it has accepted its owner as a trusted friend. The author's pet lizard even shows specific preferences, such as wanting to be fed mashed veggies from a plastic spoon once a week.
The author's snake, Tilly, showed affection by pulling their glasses off and smooching their face, similar to a cat. Building a trusted bond with a reptile takes time, patience, and consistency, but it can be rewarding to feel so close to a cold-blooded creature.
Reptiles are fascinating animals, adapted for survival in the wild with diverse behaviors and the ability to change color quickly based on their moods and the temperature of the day. Despite their unique nature, they can form bonds with their owners, and their happiness and contentment depend largely on the time and care given to them.